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How to Manifest him back

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Did you go through a traumatic break up recently? Are you wondering how to manifest him back? If so, you are not alone. Most of us will experience this at least once in our life.

The good news is, it’s absolutely possible to manifest an ex back with the law of attraction!

I’ll show you exactly how with my best tips, and even a review of my favorite manifestation course for getting your ex back if you want more structured guidance.

Breaking up is one of the most emotionally difficult experiences we can go through. Heart break will quickly bring your vibrations down. It can be so tough to raise your vibrations back up when you are heart broken, but it’s not impossible! You just need to know the basics of the law of attraction, and its like manifesting anything else, with a few key exceptions to be aware of.

What is The Law of Attraction?

First, The Law of Attraction (and manifesting) is simply bringing a thought, idea, or desire into your physical reality. Most people do this through raising their vibrations to align with what it is they want to manifest.

There are many ways to raise your vibrations, such as visualization, meditation, and affirmations. While raising your vibrations you want to visualize the desired outcome positively and in the present tense, and letting go of the outcome.

Now, where most struggle with manifestation is with letting go of the timeline of when it happens so that they can be consistently positive long enough for it to manifest. While you can manifest instantly, sometimes things take time to align up perfectly.

When you are upset from a break up, it can create unique struggles in manifesting as your emotions will likely being running at an all time high. This makes it difficult to be positive and trust the universe. We’ll discuss all of these factors step by step in this guide.

How to Manifest Him Back-Even With The Case for Free Will

There is also another important factor to keep in mind with manifesting an ex back.

When manifesting an ex, as opposed to a physical object like a car or a home, they have free-will. Free will is,

“Free will, in humans, the power or capacity to choose among alternatives or to act in certain situations independently of natural, social, or divine restraints.”

All is not lost though, as free-will can be influenced. The same general rules apply for manifesting an ex as when you are using a technique like remote seduction.

You can influence someone else, but you need to keep in mind a few things when you do so. At the end of the day, if your vibrations just don’t match theirs, they do not have to want you back. You also need to understand that sometimes it is not in your best interest, and that is why you won’t manifest them back no matter what you do. Even if you do manage to make them go against their better judgement, things will quickly go back to the original problem that caused the break up.

Some relationships are just toxic or bad for us. If you are trying to manifest someone who you know is bad for you, even if you won’t consciously acknowledge that, then you likely won’t be able to do it.

Now that you understand the unique circumstances that making manifesting an ex different from other things you may be trying to manifest, read on for how to get started!

Clear Your Head And Get Clear On Your Intentions

You will first want to take the time away to do some soul searching as to why the relationship ended in the first place. Not because you can’t manifest quickly, but because you want to avoid attracting the wrong person back in to your life.

This means not calling, or texting them constantly. Please, also stay off of their social media! In fact, it’s best to just avoid social media as much as possible in general-not just your ex’s pages. Block them if you have to, and don’t worry if that seems unnecessary. You can always add them again later when you are ready.

If you have to see them regularly, you should of course be polite, but do not go out of your way to talk to them. It’s better if you can avoid seeing each other though. No “accidental” run-in’s!

Also, absolutely no gossiping or complaining about them to your friends and family. This will only annoy people, and bring your vibrations down too. Trust me, no good comes from talking about them. We’ll go in to journaling in a moment, which is a much better outlet for your thoughts on them.

Finally, do not date someone else during this time. The only person you should be focused on is yourself and what you want. Dating will take your energy away from what you want to manifest, and likely end in hurt feelings.

There’s a reason you are broken up, and you need to find it first. You may think you know, but it will only help you to go in to more detail here. Use this time of not being together to really do some soul searching so when you are back together, it will be better than before!

At one point your vibrations matched up so well that you were attracted to each other. At some point this changed.

You must find out why and understand the reasons first before you want to attempt manifest them back. Skip this step at your own risk!

On again and off-again (rebound) relationships are very damaging to your overall vibration and self-love and will make manifesting more difficult. Plus, why would you want to attract the wrong person?

Get Your Journal Out And Ask Yourself Some Key Questions Like;

“Do I really want this person back or just to be right?”

“Can I imagine being happy with my ex just as they are now?”

“Did I really love them, or just the idea of them?”

“Are there any deal breakers that I can’t overlook?”

“What was the root cause of our break up?”

Some great way to get to the bottom of things is by journaling (also called scripting). All you need to do is get a pen and paper and sit down where you can be undisturbed.

Write down all of the reasons why you broke up, and why you want to get back together. Don’t pressure yourself to get it right, or worry about grammar and spelling. The point is just to write and get it all out. Let it flow. You may be surprised by what comes out.

After you get it all out of your system, you can now do the fun scripting! This is where you write out how you wish things were going.

The main thing to keep in mind here is to write it in a positive tone as if it is happening now. Be sure to add gratitude at the end as well.

For example, “I’m so happy I’m with (ex’s name). We always agree or respect each other’s opinions if they differ. I’m so thankful we are together!”

You can go into more detail and imagine scenarios in such as, “I love having (ex’s name) in my life! Friday night is our date night! We always make it a priority to spend time together. After work, he makes me an amazing dinner, and I do the dishes. We watch our favorite movie…” Go in to detail about the food he makes, how it smells, and tastes. Talk about the soft blanket you use on the couch, etc. Really feel the situation with all of your senses!

If you start to feel any resistance in these exercises, consider those are your abundance blocks to manifesting them back.

Abundance blocks are sneaky beliefs you have about situation that you may not even be aware of until you start to do the work. Even if you say affirmation after affirmation, or visualize for hours a day…if deep down, subconsciously, you do not believe it’s possible…your conscious mind will fight you.

There are lots of ways to get rid of these abundance blocks, which I go into detail in here:
Abundance Blocks

While you are working on yourself and your beliefs, it’s important to go no contact the entire time. Now, I don’t necessarily believe in a hard 30-day no contact rule.

Every relationship is different.

It may be two weeks, 30 days, or 1 year for you to get the proper space.

You will know when you are ready!

Raise Your Vibrations-Work On Yourself and Self-Love

This may seem like a simple tip, but its harder than it seems after a break up. Usually you are feeling such a range of negative emotions, that it may seem easier to just oversleep, and eat junk food. It’s ok to feel sorry for yourself for a few days, and it’s completely normal to take a little to adjust to the new situation. Especially since you are going no-contact, it will take some time.

Go easy on yourself!

Just try to limit yourself to only a few days of this. After a few days have passed, try to pick healthier indulgences. Now is the time to really spoil yourself.

Was there a movie or food they never wanted that you loved? Places they didn’t lke to go?

Go ahead and get a new haircut, a massage, and your nails done.

The key is do things that make you feel and look good!

If you want things like ice cream or chocolate for the first few days, that’s ok too! Just after awhile, start making better choices like dark chocolate, or low-sugar ice cream. What you eat is so important to your mindset.

Now is the time to take up an exercise and diet program. Not because you want to lose weight or look better for your ex, but because of how it will make you feel.

Self-Love is Key to manifestation, but especially with getting your ex back.

Here are a list of ways to raise your vibrations, but it basically is anything that can make you feel good (if you look at my blog categories, you will see lots of other ideas to try besides what I link to here):

  1. Exercise
  2. Healthy diet
  3. Meditate
  4. Bubble baths
  5. Movies
  6. Affirmations
  7. Visualization
  8. Rituals
  9. Subliminal
  10. Yoga
  11. Music
  12. Spending time with friends and family
  13. Journaling
  14. Essential oils
  15. Buy yourself new crystals and healing gemstones
  16. Donate to charity
  17. Volunteer in a cause you believe in
  18. Gratitude
  19. Remote Influence

The list is endless! Keep yourself so busy and happy that you are radiating good energy only. When you think of them, it will be while you are in a good mood. You do not want to be sending them any negative thoughts at this stage.

Make Contact

If, after you have done the work, and you still want to get back with your ex, it’s ok to reach out. If they haven’t already contacted you first yet, than you may be surprised you are no longer even interested. However, I’m not here to judge! If you do still want to, the best thing is to keep it light hearted.

I don’t recommend making up some excuse to talk to them or accidentally running into them. Make it genuine like, “I heard a song that reminded me of you, and just wanted to see how you were doing.” Something like that is much better than saying they forgot something and do they want to come pick it up?

Why is that not as effective? Your main reason for reaching out isn’t to return their old junk. It’s to see how they are doing. If you had any type of connection, they will not mind this. Especially if you gave them some space.

If they do mind, then you simply respect it and continue to work on yourself.

That’s it for my tips for manifesting your ex back! It’s extremely effective if you do the work on yourself, and at worst, you will be happier than you were before.

You really can’t lose with this method.

Bonus Tip: Manifest Him Back Review (Best Manifesting An Ex Back Program)

If you want some extra help manifesting your ex back, I recommend the Manifest Him Back program by Simon Stanley. Simon Stanley is an expert in the law of attraction, and has created an amazing program based on tools and techniques he has developed specifically for manifesting an ex back.

Even better, you do not have to be near or in contact with your ex for these to work. All of his tips will help increase your self-love and just make your overall life satisfaction better too. After you have had your self-esteem likely damaged from the break-up, this is a great way to start to really repair it.

What Do You Get in Manifest Him Back?

While you can use Manifest Him Back to manifest basically anything, it is focused on around manifesting a specific person back by using positive thinking, and the law of attraction with a 4 step daily ritual that includes:

Daily Discovery Videos: These fun, quick videos help get you psychologically and mentally in a better place. They help repair any emotional damage you may have so you can attract anyone, no matter how attractive they are!

Love Vibration Meditation: Audio recordings that get to the root cause- your subconscious! Focus on aligning your energy and clearing your chakras,

Sleep Audio: Getting a good nights rest is tough when you are emotionally drained. This audio will help you sleep peacefully and manifesting while you sleep. Wake up refreshed and confident.

Magic Scroll: Another great subconscious tool, these affirmations boost your confidence.

3 Bonus Tips

You also get help with manifesting a text, improving your social media presence to attract people, and how to him back by looking and feeling your sexiest.

Honestly, there’s too much to put in this review but those are the main things. You also get an easy to make confidence cocktail, anxiety evaporator, break down his defenses energetically, etc. just to name a few techniques!

Why Try Manifest Him Back?

With the Manifest Him Back program you will learn how to manifest him back, and not only your ex, but really a lot of amazing people and opportunities. Self-love is so important for manifesting, and this program really focuses on that which is why I love it so much. It makes it easy and fun to practice, and you will be able to make it specific to your situation and who broke up first.

Simon Stanley even goes into detail on the hardest part of manifesting- Law of Reverse Polarity! This is where you need to be clear on your desires without needing your desire. Ooof. That’s hard enough to do, but especially when it comes to a break up! We can all use a little support on letting go when it comes to manifestation.

Don’t try to do it alone!

You also get a 60-day, risk-free money-back guarantee.

It’s also only a one time cost of $47.

And let’s be honest, we spend more on getting our hair done or a new outfit for a date usually? Isn’t manifesting your ex back right worth a few dollars?

Check it out for yourself here for immediate access: Manifest Him Back

One thing about this program is it is very much geared toward straight, heterosexual women. There is even a technique on boosting your feminine power. So, if you don’t fit that typical mold, I think this program can still be helpful, but some things may not apply to you. Just a heads up! It’s still a great program if you are aware of that going into it.

Let me know in the commons below if you have tried the Manifest Him Back program or plan to!